Today is the International Women’s Day, and according to wikipedia, it is the day where women are celebrated for their social, political, and economic achievements. But I personally believe that women are to be celebrated, loved, and respected regardless of their socio-economic status.
So I wanna take this time to honor you ladies, no matter who you are, what you do for living, and what you look like – you are amazing, beautiful, and loved 🙂
Speaking of honoring women, I am so grateful for the opportunity to get to know some of the most inspiring and strongest women I’ve ever known at the monthly gathering called OpenSeat.
This month, the decor theme was Rustic (hence the burlap table runner!), the meal theme was Brunch (I made the virgin mimosas and it was pretty awesome!!), and…
the overall theme was “Unfiltered”. I came up with that word for the theme because I’ve noticed how we as a society have been ‘depending’ on photo filters to make our lives look better online. But at this month’s OpenSeat, the founder Queen aimed for us ladies to hear a real, unfiltered story from our fellow woman, and learn from her. And last Saturday, it happened to be the beautiful Ashley Nesbitt.
Her story was so powerful and inspiring, it left me pondering upon this one quote that she said :
Throughout my childhood until adulthood, I’ve had a lot of new beginnings. But I realized one day, that I had not taken the time to upack the things I’d been carrying with me.
She wasn’t just talking about the suitcases and physical things that she had carried, but distorted perspectives, unresolved issues, fear, and disappointments that we humans often carry through life.
Some women still make their current spouse/partner pay for their past lovers’ mistakes, because they still carry that trauma and distrust. Some still carry their fear to try pursuing their dreams because of their past failures. Or…in my case, I was still carrying my past mistakes, those labels people put on me in the past into my marriage!
And you know what, you might have physically moved on (hey, I’ve migrated to another country!), but until youresolve your ast issues, you will always find yourself battling with them, over and over and over again. Some even until they are on their deathbed!
Now we don’t want that do we? Especially with our families and our future at stake, we cannot afford to ‘crowd’ our lives with our baggages and destroy our relationships. It’s time to start unpacking, ladies. I said ‘start’ because I believe it’s a journey, and not an overnight thing.
We’re in this together.
*suitcase image cred