What I Learned from J’s Recent Surgery

When I first became a mom, I didn’t want to believe when people told me that no matter how careful you are in taking care of your kid, no matter how thick you bubble-wrap them, accidents happen. Because that’s just how life is. Bad or unfortunate events happen in life.
Well, an unfortunate event happened to J back in January. I was trying to get my New Year’s resolution going by working out at the gym in my apartment complex, and I brought J with me. Why did I bring him? Because I brought him last year, when I was training for a 5K run, and he did fine. He enjoyed watching the cartoons there, he would play with his toys, I mean it wasn’t a problem at all.

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But this year…It’s a different story. Why? Because he’s almost 3. He was more curious about equipments around him, and he ended up sticking his left fingers under the treadmill I was running on. Yeah, it was pretty bad. Blood was splashing everywhere.

So that brought us to last Wednesday, when he had a plastic surgery that will enable him to extend his fingers again. Because they got burned really badly.

Instead of throwing a pity party, whining and complaining, I have decided to jot down what I’ve learned from the incident :

  1. You don’t have to bring toys to the hospital. They have tons. (Especially Children’s Medical Center!)

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2. Your spouse might be as stressed out or as anxious as you are. So try your best to not cause drama. Keep calm. 

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3. When eating at the hospital cafeteria, don’t go for the Asian selection. Always go for the popular, Western selection. 

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4. Nobody can replace you, mom. Not even dad. Not even the kindest nurses. So please, be there for your kiddo. He’s prolly scared and confused.

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5. What you do today might and will affect your kid(s) tomorrow (or years after), not only physically, but mentally and spiritually. 

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So please, do your best to put their wellbeing first. And when accidents happen, have grace for yourself and others. And have faith! Things will get better 🙂

Have an awesome weekend y’all!

4 responses to “What I Learned from J’s Recent Surgery”

  1. read this with teary eyes cos i’ve been there in your shoes months ago :”(Gw sampe disuruh keluar kamar sama suster gara2 pas lihat anak diinfus gwnya juga ikutan nangis kenceng..
    i.cant.keep.calm
    anyway.. happy to see the storm finally passed.. kiss kiss for little J :*

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